Hey guys,
I wanna thank Dan from Charisma for adding me to his bloglist. When I find out how, I'll add him too.
Lets see, The past few months I've been talking to this asian cutie. Lets call her HBasian7 for now. I've known this girl for awhile since the first year of college. After that, I took it upon myself to get rid of her. One, I had told her that I did like her, she gave me the LJBF (Lets just be friends). Second, after she told me that weeks later I got myself a girlfriend, that surprisingly lasted for five and half years. Third, she kept mixing up my name with my TWIN brother. I understand our name is really similar, but c'mon...I wouldn't forget someone's name who liked me and were actually friends. So I think she was stupid for that.
Lets get on with it...at least once a week for the past few months, she decided to text me on my phone. I guess she wanted to reconnect with me. I'm like whatevers. So we've been talking on the phone and I saw her once while on my way to pick up my bro in Riverside. She does have a BF. She was having problems with him the day I saw her since college. The meeting went great, we were vibing. And that was that. We still kept talking.
About three weeks ago, I finally met up with her at her house and met her mom and everything. Surprisingly had dinner with her. Told her that I was on my way to pick up my bro and so we were planning to hang out later. I asked if she wanted to go. She knew that she wasn't supposed to go cause of her BF wouldn't allow it. I encouraged her that she should go if she wanted to go. She agreed. I went to go pick up my bro first and came back to pick her up. We go down to Long Beach and went to Mai Tai Bar and later V20 club.
There was a lot of IOI's from her. She leaned her head on my shoulder while we were drinking beer. Interesting thing about her, she likes drinking the foam from the beer! I've never seen any girl do that. Anways, I was doing kino also, having my hands slightly around her waist. Putting my arm around her. There was a lot of kino down at the club V20, I strayed from dancing how I want to dance, but followed her moves. If she moved in closer, I moved in closer, if she stepped back, I stepped back..you guys get the idea. I was mimicking her moves. That way she would feel comfortable and not like how most guys just want to grind and touch her making her feel uncomfortable. Towards the end of the night, I knew she was getting paranoid because she saw her BF's cousin and that he was actually circling the dance floors more than once to make sure that it was her. So she wanted to leave and I was right behind her. Took her home and that was it! She had SOOOOoo much fun as she exclaimed on the ride back.
A few days later, I call her to meet up with her one night. I tell her that I called off sick from work and that I had time to do lunch the next day. She told me her schedule and told me she would call. I was doing errands not really thinking about if she was gonna call or not. But if she did, its on. Around noon, she called and asked for directions. I cleaned up my apartment just in case, and got ready for lunch. She arrived and picked me up in long beach, and went to this local asian restaurant near my pad. I tell her that I'm glad she took her time out to hang out with me. We had this thing that we were going to talk in Khmer (Cambodian language) for the rest of the day. FYI: She's horrible at it. So she couldn't say anything much, and so did I. It was fun though, but we had to stop. lol. I wanted to actually show her around the city because she doesn't really get to hang out in LBC very much. She's from Corona. Anywho, I had told her earlier that I have the Justin Timberlake album, she loves him. But its at my apartment. So she's been wanting to see my pad, I really didn't want to. But hey, she offered. So we walked to my pad from the restaurant to get the whole city vibe as we were walking she was clinging to my arm. Major IOI of course. So I'm like okay this chick really wants me (yeah i'm going to hell with this chick, she has a bf..hahaha). I know she's really attracted to me and vice versa. So we get to my pad and we head straight for my room. I get on my bed and she sits on my bro's bed which is right across from me. I start showing her some pics as she sits next to me on my bed. I tell her some stories about the pictures and we're all laughing and having a good time. We keep spanking each other's butt because we have this thing we're we think we have great asses. She starts lying face down, just relaxing and I start caressing her. She doesn't stop me. I start caressing her lower and lower and grabbing her ass. By the way, did I mention she has a nice ass? She starts saying to massage her. So first I massage her foot, where she's loving it and then I get on top of her to start a back massage. She's relaxed while I'm massaging her back trying to get her bra strap off. I nibbled on her ear and I stop and she turns around and smiles saying "What are you doing?". I tell her I'm just massaging her. Then I go right for her legs and thighs...and her crotch. I was rubbing and rubbing and she stops me saying, "Your tickling me". I'm like yup. She gets up smiling and saying "You know we're friends right?" I tell her, "Of course, but dayam, I can't help it!" She starts smiling and laughing. She then seriously askes me, " can you be my friend or not?!" I tell her genuinely, that I can. So I was getting my first LMR with her. I didn't know what else to say. It was almost time for her to go, so we just ended it there. I walked her back to her car, and she told me that "Man, you really know how to turn girls on!" and I replied, "You mean I really know how to turn you on...". She just smiled and said, "Shut up!" Big IOI.
Okay, a few days later. Actually two nights ago. This is an email I sent to my fellow buddy who's also in the community.
Aite,
So I show up at her house around 810 and I was supposed to be there at 830. So I was there early. I waited for her til then. When she came into my car I asked her where she came from. Apparently from her bf's house. I was like okay. lol. So we head to the village in Riverside. We got some starbucks, chit chatted about stuff, dreams and ambitions. Then we head out to the crepe place and got some popcorn chicken at the boba place. We chilled there for awhile, and she asked why I didn't pick up her call saturday night. I was already knocked out and my phone was on silent still. So she asked me how that worked, and I told her to text me and see the difference between normal mode and silent mode on my phone. I started playing with her legs with my leg..just pushing in and out...like doing scissor like moves for fun. So she started trying harder to push my legs out...of course being the man that I am..i didn't let her. And she kept trying and trying. She text me, thanks for cumming over to see my big ass....hehehe...I thought okay its on! So i text her back, I didn't cum just yet..you gotta try harder....so she starts trying to push my legs out with her legs under the table. Remember where across each from each other. She keeps trying and trying will I rubbed my hands over her thighs, lightly. She then texts me " Is this hard enough, I'm trying my hardest" and I text her back, "Your getting there!"...So while we're doings I move her legs in closer to mine as she's trying still. Anyways..she gets tired of it..and she starts rubbing her foot with my legs. She goes under my jeans with her foot and feeling on my skin and then on my thigh. I start moving her foot towards my crotch area..and she starts rubbing that shit. I was like FUCK....lol....haha.. We laugh here and there, it was good times. She's fucking sneaky too..she was like i'm thirsty..my mouth is hot...can you get me some water...The water is at the counter...I had a hard on and shit..I was like..uhh..lets wait a few minutes. I told her she was fucking sneaky. Playing dumb and shit...So I check my shit..and I'm like okay i'm cool..so i grab her some water. lol..After all that we head out to gamesessions....and yes I taught her how to play countestrike a little bit because she told me earlier that her girlfriend plays and wanted her to get into it. So we went and said wassup to a few peeps...introduced her to some of my friends there. We stayed for like a half an hour and I told her that we should get going. She tells me that she has to be home by twelve. Its already 1130...So i'm okay..We drive the we're I used to live to get to the 215 to the 91. And On the freeway, I talk about how its really ticklish around a certain thigh area if you squeeze it. So we feel each other's thigh and we try not to squeeze because its really sensitive, and i'm also driving...lol. So she keeps massage my inner thighs and shit. Damn felt good. So she stops and we finally exit, and I tell her, You know I don't want you to go so early, I'm bored, I still wanna chill. She says okay, and she tells me where to go..which was a park nearby. So we park and we wanted to find someplace darker, but we just chilled there. So we're talking about shit and we're close face to face....then I start kissing her cheek and neck..and start caressing her. That's where the fucking LMR started like crazy!!! so get this its 12 midnight, I'm fucking kissing her all over the place, not lips, She tells me to stop and I tell her I'm hard. I grab her hands towards my crotch. She starts grabbing that shit and I guide her along down towards my pants and shit. I unbuckle she starts doing a handjob on me, while I'm caressing her and I was hoping I would get at least a bj. Nope I tell her that "I'm dry" hahha..like you said..yeah didn't work. She keeps telling we we're friends, and that we should stop. I tell her yes I understand but you're so sexy and fucking attractive, We find each other attractive, that's why we're doing this. She keeps saying no, no, no while I'm fucking caressing her all over, I freaking suck on her titties..and shit. She pulls me away. I was persistent for the past 40 mins..Of LMR. Then finally she's just stops me. She puts my pants back on and buckle. And I tell her I understand I don't want you to do anything you want to do. I have her kiss me on the cheek. And I take her home. I have her again kiss me on the cheek and I kiss her on the cheek and jammed home man. That's it......haha.
So there you go. I get LMR like freaking crazy. My thoughts on this:
There are girls who are like this! So I experienced it first hand. I've never been in this situation but I don't know how to be more effective. I do not treat these girls like sluts....though my buddy already categorized her into that lol. I do not regret what I did. I gave her the choice. Its more of a challenge for me to be in that situation. It gives me an adrenaline rush. Lets see if anything else happens with HBasian7. I would love any feedback if possible from you guys! Thanks!
